...as YOU like it....

I should have undoubtedly kept this to my own self,written this down in my personal diary. But I decided to write it down here keeping in mind a few things. Let's not start listing the few things because that would pretty much be boring.This blog is very special to me. I have taken admission in an Engineering course. And my college is about to start in a few days. I have had a very long break from studies. And for the better i have learnt so much in this while. I have learnt that not everyone you believe is your friend is actually one. It's hard to find a true friend. I have learnt that we take the wisest of steps when we ain't angry and we are calm. It's a human trait to get angry . But decisions shouldn't be made in a hurry. I have learnt that it's ok to not be okay at times. I have learnt that one should be private . Because everyone is not worth knowing everything about us. I have discovered the power of spending time with myself. I have discovered that my accompany is all I need at most times. I have realised the importance of writing. Writing down my thoughts and emotions helped me deal with them better since writing them down reduced the  chaos and commotion of jumbled up thoughts in my head. As we grow up our circle  becomes smaller and smaller until it reaches a point where it becomes constant. I have learnt to focus on the learnings from a mistake and not on the loss . Everything has a positive side to it.  Only something that makes you happy is Worth your time and efforts. What the people from outside say is none of your business. You've got to do what you love. If that makes you boring for the others dosen't matter. I have been called "boring" many a times for something I loved to do. I have always been ashamed of that. But now with maturity I realise that what the hell. How can people who don't live my life command the same. I will not wait for someone else to judge me. I know what I am. This grew my confidence. No matter what you are from inside it's wise to have a tough outer shell on which hate comments can bombard and go back to the sender. You are the way you are ,you are beautiful,you are awesome. Your beauty dosen't need any validation.